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= Overview =

The goal of having socially controlled allocated sexual activity is to reduce frustration and unhappiness that result from the [[Sexual relationships|competitive mating process]] and [[Marriage and children|life long sexual contracts]], to reinforce the removal of [[Concentration of power|concentrations of power]], and to allow community members to focus on the [[Productive time management|goals of the community]].

Any method of managing sexual relationships can be decided on by the community.

= Possible implementation =

Adult members are given the opportunity to choose who they would like to have a sexual encounter with, the target member could then make reasonable demands of the requester in return for fulfilling the request.

== Queue of encounters ==

Each person has a queue that other people place their name on to request a sexual encounter. The person responds to each request with terms for the encounter, and must perform the encounters in the order of the names on the queue.

The requester can at any time remove their name from a queue, if they re-enter the queue they do not retain their previous position, their name is added at the bottom.

== Quota of requests ==

Each person has a quota of requests they can make, when they add their name to someone's queue they use up one of their quota, for example if the quota is three then one person can only place their name on three target partner queues.

An in demand target person will have a long queue, so requesting an encounter with them will come at a cost to the requester.

== Frequency of encounters ==

The community can set required frequency of encounters, for example minimum 3 encounters per month.

== Sexual health ==

With a promiscuous community protection against sexually transmitted diseases is important, all members should be regularly screened.

Reproductive education is also important and all members should support each other in intelligent birth control.

== Protection against abuse ==

The terms of any sexual encounter are decided on beforehand by the target person. [[Kindness and respect]] govern all interactions, the community [[Education of community members|teaches it's members]] the benefits of this process with a focus on care for each other, both parties are expected to abide by the terms and be considerate of the other member.

If the community employs a high level of [[Transparency]] encounters can be surveilled and any breach of the terms could be addressed through [[Issue resolution]].

Both people are expected to perform to a reasonable level, if one intentionally makes the experience unenjoyable an [[Issue resolution|issue]] could be raised, if unintentional the community could have methods to support and teach how to perform better.

== Sexual orientation ==

People can state their sexual orientation, only encounters of that type will be allowed.

== Disagreements about terms ==

If the target person makes demands that are unreasonable the requester could [[Issue resolution|raise an issue]] against them, over time a clear set of reasonable terms will begin to form.

For example the target person might request specific terms for the sexual act, and that the requester cooks them a particular meal, gives them a massage, hold them until they fall asleep, spend the entire night with them and cook breakfast.

Terms like self-harm or being a slave for a year might be considered unreasonable by the community.

= Related concepts =

* [[Productive time management]]
* [[Allocated procreation]]
* [[Kindness and respect]]

= Related reasonings =

* [[Sexual relationships]]
* [[Personal freedom]]
* [[Greed and materialism]]
* [[What makes humans happy]]

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